I like the site because it uses Afrikaans which keeps away many of the scammers.
My main issue is that it does not allow you to search by city or suburb so you get lots of people who live far away in your searches. Adding a location would help a lot maybe like Tinder.
Pros Afrikaans and simple to use
Cons Cannot tell where person lives needs location
I suspect a lot of the profiles on this website are not real. For the 2nd time I have "suddenly" received messages from a profile after my subscription expired. I replied and a conversation with this "profile" developed until my free messages expired. Then right after renewing my subscription, the conversation stopped. Sure sign that I was fooled and duped - again - joke is on me I admit. But be warned, as confirmed by a few studies conducted on these dating sites, the success rates are extremely low, and even more so for male participants. These studies also revealed that a majority of the profiles on these sites are fake.
Pros Just another dating site to take advantage of ignorance and naivety.
Cons Worse than amateurish website design and functionality
Good site. 99% of people don't respond. But that's not stoutgat 's fault. Can't load Pic. Request for help... Got no response.
Pros At least got some responses. They don't try rob you like some other places by taking money from you bank monthly. Stoutgat is nice and honest. It's a once off payment. I respect them for that.
This site is totally fake. No ladies wants to take the chat to another platformonly want to chat on the site with ludicrous prices.
All, all ladies is extremely explicit, which is very rare. All chats is explicit of nature. They don't know the area they are suppose to be in.
First off you get the impression that it a legit site, you fill out the profile add your photo and before you know it you have forty or so messages requests from a variety of ladies young old you name it, beautiful to down right fugly. I was shocked at the response, I have been on other sites before and if you get 10 in the first few days you're lucky. So you think this is heaven and buy some credits (cheapest is R10. per send) and start chatting. You sure feel good for a while, the compliments are laid on thick and you really feel good about yourself. then reality kicks in and you start to question things like how is the weather your side. answer great sunny day - mean while you look outside and its pouring down a storm. You investigate further -image reverse search and realise that 90% off Dutch and German porn sites, particularly those with amateur content. you then start to realize a pattern in language and realize that a lot is scripted. So the picture comes to mind of someone (could even be male) sitting behind a screen with 20 profiles in front of them pandering to there flock. So my advice is if you are feeling down and need a boost and have deep pockets go for it. If you a really looking for a friend stay the hell away.
Pros entertainment value only
Cons fake fake and more fake. you might not be even talking to the same person as this morning.
I was horrified by discovering after talking to a few women that a number of questions are similar and they don't respond to questions that will facilitate meeting them. They never share their contact details after chatting for a while. They suggest sticking to the Secretmatch site. I am convinced Secretmatchclub is a money making scam. Stay away from it, you will never meet any of the women!
After talking for 2 weeks and 100 messages later the girl still did not want to share any info! Totally a scam - dont waste your hard earned money here!
I was on this site and everytime I asked different woman to chat on fb or watts up. They made sum excuse those sites are not safe. I feel comfortable talking here with u. Ask for a phone number, u get no answer. They talk about something else. And they never read ur msg fully. Always tripping up on themselves , cant remember what they write. BIG SCAM. Stay clear.
If you are prepared to fork out tons of money, this SCAM website is for you! To date, I have literally thrown away at least 10-11 thousand rands with FUCK ALL to show for! PLEASE! Don’t go anywhere near this money making SCAM! And yes! It is highly ADDICTIVE! You have been WARNED!
I thought it was worth a shot to try this site. I'm sure they have many overseas members but the problem appears to be that there are not a lot of South African people in my demographic on this site. The matches that the site displays for me don't reply, which probably means they're long gone.
Scam swears and carries on like a 5 year old todler the owner at webmd@gmail the site is a legit scam.
Pros None
Cons Slaunders and swears or cusses when trying to ask about acc issues.Website is litteraly a scam ,if need screenshots of his email responses can be sent.
I am looking for a serious rex
Review about MySecretContactI am looking for a serious relationship and sex
Pros
Is a simple way of finding your flings
Cons
It uses data
OK but can be improved
Review about Stoutgat.netI like the site because it uses Afrikaans which keeps away many of the scammers.
My main issue is that it does not allow you to search by city or suburb so you get lots of people who live far away in your searches. Adding a location would help a lot maybe like Tinder.
Pros
Afrikaans and simple to use
Cons
Cannot tell where person lives needs location
Fake profiles and false leads
Review about Stoutgat.netI suspect a lot of the profiles on this website are not real. For the 2nd time I have "suddenly" received messages from a profile after my subscription expired. I replied and a conversation with this "profile" developed until my free messages expired. Then right after renewing my subscription, the conversation stopped. Sure sign that I was fooled and duped - again - joke is on me I admit. But be warned, as confirmed by a few studies conducted on these dating sites, the success rates are extremely low, and even more so for male participants. These studies also revealed that a majority of the profiles on these sites are fake.
Pros
Just another dating site to take advantage of ignorance and naivety.
Cons
Worse than amateurish website design and functionality
Me dee
Review about Secret CheatersNone
Je suis étudiant
Review about Find My FlirtsJe suis débutant
what a knob
Review about NSA South Africalove it
Can't load pic
Review about Stoutgat.netGood site. 99% of people don't respond. But that's not stoutgat 's fault. Can't load Pic. Request for help... Got no response.
Pros
At least got some responses. They don't try rob you like some other places by taking money from you bank monthly. Stoutgat is nice and honest. It's a once off payment. I respect them for that.
Cons
Can't load foto. Questions are ignored
FAKE SITE
Review about Secret Match ClubThis site is totally fake. No ladies wants to take the chat to another platformonly want to chat on the site with ludicrous prices.
All, all ladies is extremely explicit, which is very rare. All chats is explicit of nature. They don't know the area they are suppose to be in.
Cons
Fake site
a take your money site
Review about WoesFlirtsFirst off you get the impression that it a legit site, you fill out the profile add your photo and before you know it you have forty or so messages requests from a variety of ladies young old you name it, beautiful to down right fugly. I was shocked at the response, I have been on other sites before and if you get 10 in the first few days you're lucky. So you think this is heaven and buy some credits (cheapest is R10. per send) and start chatting. You sure feel good for a while, the compliments are laid on thick and you really feel good about yourself. then reality kicks in and you start to question things like how is the weather your side. answer great sunny day - mean while you look outside and its pouring down a storm. You investigate further -image reverse search and realise that 90% off Dutch and German porn sites, particularly those with amateur content. you then start to realize a pattern in language and realize that a lot is scripted. So the picture comes to mind of someone (could even be male) sitting behind a screen with 20 profiles in front of them pandering to there flock. So my advice is if you are feeling down and need a boost and have deep pockets go for it. If you a really looking for a friend stay the hell away.
Pros
entertainment value only
Cons
fake fake and more fake. you might not be even talking to the same person as this morning.
Fake dating site
Review about Secret Match ClubI was horrified by discovering after talking to a few women that a number of questions are similar and they don't respond to questions that will facilitate meeting them. They never share their contact details after chatting for a while. They suggest sticking to the Secretmatch site. I am convinced Secretmatchclub is a money making scam. Stay away from it, you will never meet any of the women!
Pros
Photos of women
Cons
It is a Scam and should be closed down.
Fake site - all bots
Review about Just Sex OnlyThis fake site is exclusively populated by bots. There are no real women on this site. It is run by shysters out of Europe.
Pros
Nothing
Cons
You will never meet anybody
Waste of time and money. Scam
Review about Find My FlirtsPhotos are of women not from Cape town but from overseas.
Cons
Fake
This is definitely a scam -
Review about Secret Match ClubAfter talking for 2 weeks and 100 messages later the girl still did not want to share any info! Totally a scam - dont waste your hard earned money here!
Pros
Beautiful pictures
Cons
Nothing is real
Sex
Review about My Sex SearchSex
Pros
Sex karna
Cons
Sex karna
The names says all
Review about Secret CheatersFake fake scam scam they cheat
Pros
Nothing
Cons
They steal lonely people's money shame on them
I can't access my account
Review about Secret Match ClubNice app
Pros
People are real
Big scam site
Review about Secret Match ClubI was on this site and everytime I asked different woman to chat on fb or watts up. They made sum excuse those sites are not safe. I feel comfortable talking here with u. Ask for a phone number, u get no answer. They talk about something else. And they never read ur msg fully. Always tripping up on themselves , cant remember what they write. BIG SCAM. Stay clear.
Pros
Nothing to expensive for bull shit
Cons
No honesty. No commitments.
Cancel subscription
Review about Sielsmaats.co.zaCancell my subscription as from today
Confirm
ITS A FLIPPING SCAM!
Review about Find My FlirtsIf you are prepared to fork out tons of money, this SCAM website is for you! To date, I have literally thrown away at least 10-11 thousand rands with FUCK ALL to show for! PLEASE! Don’t go anywhere near this money making SCAM! And yes! It is highly ADDICTIVE! You have been WARNED!
Pros
ABSOLUTELY NO PROS!
Cons
ONLY CONS! SHARKS! SCAMMERS!
Focuses on overseas users
Review about ZooskI thought it was worth a shot to try this site. I'm sure they have many overseas members but the problem appears to be that there are not a lot of South African people in my demographic on this site. The matches that the site displays for me don't reply, which probably means they're long gone.
Cons
Too few South African people
Also struggling to log in
Review about Maats.co.zaSomebody else said they were having problems logging in. Me too. Reset link seems not to work.
Agree with other reviews
Review about WoesFlirtsCanned responses. Not actual women.
Staff pretending to be women
Review about Secret CheatersIt's clear that the "members" who pretend to respond to you, are actually just the staff of the site, because their replies are canned, standard stuff
Cons
Fake
No real women
Review about Find My FlirtsNo real women on this site, apparently
Cons
Fake members
Behaviour slander
Review about Stoutgat.netScam swears and carries on like a 5 year old todler the owner at webmd@gmail the site is a legit scam.
Pros
None
Cons
Slaunders and swears or cusses when trying to ask about acc issues.Website is litteraly a scam ,if need screenshots of his email responses can be sent.