I like the site because it uses Afrikaans which keeps away many of the scammers.
My main issue is that it does not allow you to search by city or suburb so you get lots of people who live far away in your searches. Adding a location would help a lot maybe like Tinder.
ProsAfrikaans and simple to use
ConsCannot tell where person lives needs location
I suspect a lot of the profiles on this website are not real. For the 2nd time I have "suddenly" received messages from a profile after my subscription expired. I replied and a conversation with this "profile" developed until my free messages expired. Then right after renewing my subscription, the conversation stopped. Sure sign that I was fooled and duped - again - joke is on me I admit. But be warned, as confirmed by a few studies conducted on these dating sites, the success rates are extremely low, and even more so for male participants. These studies also revealed that a majority of the profiles on these sites are fake.
ProsJust another dating site to take advantage of ignorance and naivety.
ConsWorse than amateurish website design and functionality
Je suis débutant
Good site. 99% of people don't respond. But that's not stoutgat 's fault. Can't load Pic. Request for help... Got no response.
ProsAt least got some responses. They don't try rob you like some other places by taking money from you bank monthly. Stoutgat is nice and honest. It's a once off payment. I respect them for that.
ConsCan't load foto. Questions are ignored
This site is totally fake. No ladies wants to take the chat to another platformonly want to chat on the site with ludicrous prices.
All, all ladies is extremely explicit, which is very rare. All chats is explicit of nature. They don't know the area they are suppose to be in.
First off you get the impression that it a legit site, you fill out the profile add your photo and before you know it you have forty or so messages requests from a variety of ladies young old you name it, beautiful to down right fugly. I was shocked at the response, I have been on other sites before and if you get 10 in the first few days you're lucky. So you think this is heaven and buy some credits (cheapest is R10. per send) and start chatting. You sure feel good for a while, the compliments are laid on thick and you really feel good about yourself. then reality kicks in and you start to question things like how is the weather your side. answer great sunny day - mean while you look outside and its pouring down a storm. You investigate further -image reverse search and realise that 90% off Dutch and German porn sites, particularly those with amateur content. you then start to realize a pattern in language and realize that a lot is scripted. So the picture comes to mind of someone (could even be male) sitting behind a screen with 20 profiles in front of them pandering to there flock. So my advice is if you are feeling down and need a boost and have deep pockets go for it. If you a really looking for a friend stay the hell away.
Prosentertainment value only
Consfake fake and more fake. you might not be even talking to the same person as this morning.
I was horrified by discovering after talking to a few women that a number of questions are similar and they don't respond to questions that will facilitate meeting them. They never share their contact details after chatting for a while. They suggest sticking to the Secretmatch site. I am convinced Secretmatchclub is a money making scam. Stay away from it, you will never meet any of the women!
ProsPhotos of women
ConsIt is a Scam and should be closed down.
This fake site is exclusively populated by bots. There are no real women on this site. It is run by shysters out of Europe.
ConsYou will never meet anybody
Photos are of women not from Cape town but from overseas.
After talking for 2 weeks and 100 messages later the girl still did not want to share any info! Totally a scam - dont waste your hard earned money here!
ConsNothing is real
Fake fake scam scam they cheat
ConsThey steal lonely people's money shame on them
ProsPeople are real
I was on this site and everytime I asked different woman to chat on fb or watts up. They made sum excuse those sites are not safe. I feel comfortable talking here with u. Ask for a phone number, u get no answer. They talk about something else. And they never read ur msg fully. Always tripping up on themselves , cant remember what they write. BIG SCAM. Stay clear.
ProsNothing to expensive for bull shit
ConsNo honesty. No commitments.
Cancell my subscription as from today
If you are prepared to fork out tons of money, this SCAM website is for you! To date, I have literally thrown away at least 10-11 thousand rands with FUCK ALL to show for! PLEASE! Don’t go anywhere near this money making SCAM! And yes! It is highly ADDICTIVE! You have been WARNED!
ProsABSOLUTELY NO PROS!
ConsONLY CONS! SHARKS! SCAMMERS!
I thought it was worth a shot to try this site. I'm sure they have many overseas members but the problem appears to be that there are not a lot of South African people in my demographic on this site. The matches that the site displays for me don't reply, which probably means they're long gone.
ConsToo few South African people
Somebody else said they were having problems logging in. Me too. Reset link seems not to work.
Canned responses. Not actual women.
It's clear that the "members" who pretend to respond to you, are actually just the staff of the site, because their replies are canned, standard stuff
No real women on this site, apparently
Scam swears and carries on like a 5 year old todler the owner at webmd@gmail the site is a legit scam.
ConsSlaunders and swears or cusses when trying to ask about acc issues.Website is litteraly a scam ,if need screenshots of his email responses can be sent.
I spoke with over 10 woman, all fake, they all tell you it's not possible to exchange a number or an email, how possible. Never got to meet any of the woman, pure fake.
ProsNothing, utter rubbish site
ConsThey just take people's money, you will never meet any of the woman on the site